He looks down, she glances up, both of them gaze in just about every direction during sex. But eye to eye? Too often, it doesn’t happen. But couples should take time to make it a priority.… Continue Reading →
Sixty percent of couples in long-term relationships report having a less-than-ideal sex life. Among the other 40%, many are probably fibbing. Is the union of monogamy and monotony inevitable? Must sex with a long-term partner be… Continue Reading →
A recent article in the New York Times about female orgasms and one-night stands – it’s much more difficult for women to achieve than men – was the most popular story on the website for awhile.… Continue Reading →
1. Role Playing Get out of the routine in your life and experience something fantastical. Most of us have fallen into a sexual rut because we assume a role that is comfortable for us. Experiment. Develop… Continue Reading →
So you freely fart in front of one another and one of you is either tweezing their chin or digging for gold when they get the chance. Being comfortable in your long-term relationship is fantastic, right? The… Continue Reading →
Some people don’t get the importance of eye contact during sex. Admittedly, this was an issue I personally had in a previous 11 year relationship. Yep, I pretty much went 11 years (granted I was in… Continue Reading →
At times it seems the longer some couples are together the less they tend to dote on one another affectionately. You know, things like twisting one another’s hair between their fingers, rubbing their backs during long… Continue Reading →
“Oohs” and “Aahs” of sex seem to be what it’s all about – the “feeling” of sex that we all focus on. But we all end up between the sheets (or on the kitchen table, as… Continue Reading →
Whether you are doing the breaking up (insert the feelings of guilt, anxiety and sadness), or are the receiver of the bad news (insert anger, devastation, and rejection) it seems that there is nothing to gain… Continue Reading →
Dear Dr. Kat, Does a woman really respond better when a man pays less attention to her? For example, if I get a girl’s phone number and wait several days (6 or 7) to call her… Continue Reading →