Shit happens and for those in a partnered relationship it can be especially taxing on the ol’sex life. Whether it is trouble with the kids, health issues or money problems, how do couples continue to connect physically with one another? Sex can often be the last thing on anyone’s mind when the rug is pulled from under you.
We all know too many couples do not prioritize sex when things are good let alone, when the going gets rough. But I suggest you use sex to bridge that gap instead of allowing it to widen. Making time to have sex and be affectionate –even when you don’t feel like it – is a worthy cause. Physical contact stimulates the bonding hormone oxytocin and can help to soothe your body and mind. It can also be a great distraction. Allowing you to focus on yourself and partner rather than the issue at hand.
Difficulties like a health issue often last for periods of time. Not having sex for weeks or months on end, can lead to a feeling of disconnection between partners. This disconnection can breed a lack of caring and concern as well, lack of empathy for where the other person is emotionally.