June 4, 2012
Sex Toy Basics
Purchasing sex toys no longer has to be an intimidating proposition. Gone are the days where you have to duck into seedy sex shops and grab the first item in front of you so you can make a quick get away. Also gone are the days where you have to settle for low quality products. Thanks to increased public acceptance of sexual products due to the media and Viagra toys are much more mainstream than even ten years ago. The internet has opened a whole new world of friendly and discreet shopping experiences that anyone can partake in. But if you are a sex toy novice there are few things you might want to know in order to be a good sex toy consumer.
Where to Buy
If there is an adult pleasure shop near you that you feel comfortable going into (more and more are becoming female friendly), make an afternoon of it. Go in and touch and feel to your heart’s desire – there should be samples you can “fondle”. Another great option is the sex toy party. Held under several different names these parties can make for a fun evening with friends and you get to touch and feel the toys as well. By far the best option though is to shop by internet. You will have the most selection and probably better pricing by using one of these sites. An additional bonus is that some sites also have a ton of education material on everything from how to use your toy to general sex ed issues. Most companies have customer service reps available to answer questions and they ship and bill discreetly. Because you won’t be able to interact with the product until it arrives at your home, they also tend to have very forgiving return policies.
What to Buy
Now this is a broad answer! Depending on your inclinations there literally is a sex toy for everyone. Notice what turns you on. Do you respond well to clitoral stimulation? Are you looking for a toy you can use with a partner? Curious about anal stimulation? Most shops online have their toys grouped in categories according to what the toy does for you. Pick something in your price range that appeals to you. It’s best to start basic and work your way into more complex toys. Trust me, there will be some toys that you won’t be sure what they are for just by looking at them.
How to Get Started
Schedule a “date” with your toy and get to know it. It is usually best to experience a toy on its own before you share it a partner. That way, you direct them to what turns you on. If it has instructions, read them. Otherwise, enjoy some privacy and explore your body with your toy. If it vibrates don’t just press it into your clitoris. Try is gently against your labia, insert it, and roll it over the clitoris. Try different variations of handling the toy. It may also be great to put against your nipple or outside of your anus. The possibilities are endless. Keep in mind though, that toys that do not have a flared base or tether should not be inserted into the anus. They can be difficult to get out and I don’t think you want a trip to the emergency room to have a doc do the honors.
Caring for Your Toys
You may choose to use a condom over some toys or just be vigilant about washing before and after each interlude. The process of cleaning your depends upon what material it is made out of. Heck, some you can just throw in the dishwasher. Also, be sure to store your toys in a cool, dry place when not in use.
Incorporating sex toys into your repertoire doesn’t mean your sex life is lacking, as the old myth implies. It means that you are open to the possibilities of expanding your sexuality and enjoying more pleasure in your life. By using these suggestions you’ll be a sex toy expert in no time.
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