May 31, 2012

How to Male Masturbate

by Dr. Kat in Sex 1 Comment

Here are some tips and techniques that I’m sure not only our male readers will enjoy but also all of the women out there who have been in the dark about this male past time.

Most men learned early on that touching their penis is pleasurable. They may begin by rubbing it against things that feel good (like pillows and sheets) or simply begin stroking it – some men prefer additional lubrication some prefer a dry hand. The thing with hand jobs is that other than the fact that having another person perform a hand job on them, no one will ever do a hand job on a guy as good as they could do themselves. We don’t usually speak in generalities here but this seems to be a universal phenomenon. So, for all you women out there the best way to learn to do a great hand job on your man is to watch what he does to himself. There are so many nuances from person to person that it’s unimaginable. Hand position varies widely, along with speed, angle, and motion. Some prefer to stand up, some in want to sit versus reclining. Position may depend on the situation.

The main thing we discovered about developing a How To Male Masturbate is that we simply cannot include all of techniques we came across. Men are much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulvas for many, many years. It seems that because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and that they are such a sign of virility is male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation.  Therefore, they’ve had A LOT of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate. So, other than the basics we’ll just include a few trends here and let you personally explore the rest of them on your own…

Knowing the lay of the land is important. Anatomy of the penis:

• Glans: The head of the penis
• Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part **
• Shaft: The length of the penis
• Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
• Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.

To lube or not to lube: Try it both ways and see what you like. Most men begin experimenting early on with hand lotion and soap in the shower. Do yourself a favor and graduate to one of the many amazing lubes out there. There are lubes just for jacking off, check out .

Full, single hand:
Using a single fist is the most basic male masturbation technique. Simply wrap one entire fist around the shaft of the penis and begin stroking up and down.

Two Fists Together:
This works especially well on men who have more length. Wrap both fists around the shaft and stroke up and down.

Two Fists Alternating:
This variation used each hand one at a time but allows you to alternate. You can even experiment with one fist going up and the other down.

Two Finger Method:
Many men who prefer to focus their stroking on the glans (head) of the penis prefer this method. Using just the thumb, pointer and ring finger from one hand rub the head of the penis vigorously.

Thumb and Finger Rings:
Make little circles with your thumbs and ring fingers from both hands. Encircle around the penis and stroke up and down.

Insertion into Objects:
There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate vaginal intercourse. This can vary from toilet paper rolls to fruit (watermelon or cantaloupe). Other foods like the infamous apple pie from the movie “American Pie”. Rest assured that if you can think of it, it’s been done. A slightly cleaner option is one of the many male masturbation toys on the market now.

Vacuum Play: We highly suggest you experiment with this by using a sex toy creating for suction and not yourHooverat home.

Use of Cock Rings: Some men like the sensation of a raging hard-on. Rubber cock rings are great but an adjustable ring like the Stretch is probably a better bet for first-timers. You can also upgrade to a vibrating cock ring.

Testicle Play: While stroking (or in between stroking) begin fondling or lightly scratching the testicles and perineum. There are toys that will vibrate the testicles as well.

Water Play: This includes masturbating in a pool, Jacuzzi or shower. The presence of water can vary the friction. Also, if there is a stream of water or jet try running it directly on the underside of the penis where the glans meets the shaft (the frenulum).

Thigh Squeezing: Although not comfortable for all men, pull the penis down so it is caught in between your thighs. Then squeeze the muscles of your thighs together.

Rolling Techniques: Stand with your erect penis over a desk or counter and then begin to roll the penis back and forth vigorously over the top of the surface.

Anal Play: Inserting fingers and toys into the anus while jacking off can take you to a whole new level. Prostate orgasms while masturbating can be mind blowing. It can be even easier if you use a vibrating toy.

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