Why use a dildo rather than a vibrator? Some people like to feel more in control of sensation, while others feel it is more realistic looking and feeling to a real penis. Regardless, I’ve got some basic guidelines for you that will help you get the most pleasure you can from your dildo play.
- Get Comfortable. Feeling relaxed when experimenting with your dildo will help you ease into the sensation.
- Don’t forget the lube. If you want to be able to move the dildo in and out of your vagina or anus, lube is a must. Friction is the enemy of a pleasant dildo experience.
- Size Matters. Go smaller rather than bigger at first. When it comes to dildos, girth is more important than length. If you have never used a dildo before I recommend a slim dildo, if you like the sensation move up gradually to something bigger. It’s always nice to have several sizes to choose from based on how you are feeling at the time.