People get Sexologists and Sex Surrogates mixed up all the time. If you’re looking for a surrogate it very much depends on what you would like to see a surrogate for and also not everyone is… Continue Reading →

Dear Dr. Kat, My wife and I have been involved in the “swinger” scene for some time now. It’s been a wonderful way to express our sexuality as a couple over the years. However, I’ve sensed… Continue Reading →

Yes, this is a blog by my husband. He likes to point at the irreverent and ridicules aspects of having me for a wife. Go figure. Do you feel comfortable asking your wife … Posted on… Continue Reading →

Dear Dr. Kat, I have a question about my boyfriend. We have sex often — and good sex. But what I can’t figure out about him is that he jerks off while he’s sleeping. He doesn’t… Continue Reading →

A few words about my man about town on Sex Chat with Dr. Kat and her Gay Boyfriend…Mr. Ross Martineau. Ross has been gay since birth (with an innate love of Judy Garland and musical theatre… Continue Reading →

With the issues of returning veterans from Iraq being highlighted in the news, the effects of their war experiences on their personal lives cannot be ignored. We have soldiers returning to their partners who have forever… Continue Reading →

How To: 1. The Facts: The Prostate is the size of a walnut and is located 4 cm (1.6 inches) in from the anus on the anterior wall, down from the bladder and in front of… Continue Reading →

Tantra has much more to do with than just sex. Although not generally considered a religion, it is an ancient non-denominational spiritual practice that evolved in India more than 7000 years ago. It was born out… Continue Reading →

Benefits of watching explicit films with your lover: • Enhances sexual communication. When you see it you can talk about it. You can let each other know preferences or boundaries with ease as they come up… Continue Reading →

Dear Dr. Kat, My girlfriend never orgasms during intercourse, she claims she’s not getting enough clitoral stimulation, but with a vibrator she orgasms in no time. I have tried everything. It’s very disheartening. Advice? Dennis,DelMar  … Continue Reading →