Vibrator Myths
There are lots of myths when it comes to using vibrators and dildos. Sometimes there can be shades of truth but often the reality is quite different from what you and your partner might think. Vibrators… Continue Reading →
Category Archives: Sex
The Long and the Short of Labia
I hear from women all the time about how they worry about whether their vulvas are “normal”. They’ve somehow gotten the idea that everyone must look the same down there. Perfectly sized labial folds and demure… Continue Reading →
5 Tips to Seducing Her
Women want to feel appreciated, safe and secure in the sex act. All three are important when seducing women. Here are more tips to get her in the right ‘head-space’ for sex. Use Your Words Words are the first stop to… Continue Reading →
5 Tips to Seducing Him
Men often love to be seduced. Since men generally have the burden of initiation and seduction, turning the tables on him can make him feel wanted and attractive — while you get to experience your own,… Continue Reading →
Exploring Sensation Play
When I tell people I went through a sensorium exercise in school they look at me pretty perplexed. In the years since, I’ve suggested sensoriums for clients. Sensoriums are simply an exercise where one person is… Continue Reading →
Why We Have Sex
Why do we have sex? Well, beyond the fact it feels good it seems that there are two main motives behind our desire to get down. Two recent studies from the University of Toronto examine two… Continue Reading →
Testicles Need Love Too
Love them, hate them or simply in wonder of them, testicles play an important role in the sex act and they shouldn’t be left out of all of the pleasure. If you ask most men about… Continue Reading →
Know Thyself: The Sex Exam
How to Do a Sex Exam Ever heard of a Sexological Exam? Or S-exam for short? No need for a doctor. It’s a practice to help you really learn about your body. True, many of us… Continue Reading →
Dildo 101
Why use a dildo rather than a vibrator? Some people like to feel more in control of sensation, while others feel it is more realistic looking and feeling to a real penis. Regardless, I’ve got some… Continue Reading →
Why Porn Isn’t the Problem
Is porn a problem? This is a very often-asked question in my office. And it can be quite the loaded question because many assume that all porn is bad, therefore all porn is a problem, right?… Continue Reading →